Have you noticed that some people love to play the "martyr card?"
They suffer either as a way of getting attention for themselves or as a way of declaring moral superiority over others.
The victim trap keeps us from being all the at we can be.
And, more importantly, playing the suffering hero is NOT loving either for ourselves or for others.
Learn how to break the martyr mindset and liberate yourself to live (and to love) fully and completely.
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